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Recollections of Blaisdon Hall
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Len Carter 15 December 2011 Update No. 3 on Len Carter. Great News about Len Carter. He has recently been advised that the scan on his colon and recent test have determined that he has no cancer and that the recent biopsies have turned out to be simple benign Cysts. Len thanks you all for your prayers and kind thoughts. A great Christmas present for Len. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________- 06 October 2011 Update No. 2 on Len Carter. Len has called me to let me know he is a little under the weather after the biopsies he had, but expects to be OK soon. We had planned to do something together which had to be cancelled this was why he called me. ________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 17 October 2011 Update on Len Carter Len called me this evening to let me know that he had a CT Scan at Mount Vernon Hospital and he has been told that some nodules appeared in his colon. Len has been put on medication right away and will be called in for a Colonoscopy to take some small biopsies for analysis. As usual, Len is phlegmatic as these processes take their course. However please do keep Len and Sylvia in your kind thoughts and prayers that results will turn our better that they possibly fear _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ 05 July 2011 Update no. 3 on Len Carte's wife, Sylvia After I returned from the funeral of Andy Webb's wife, Maureen, and had created an item on the funeral, I took myself off to Hillingdon Hospital to see how Sylvia was getting on. I walked straight into her room to find a man lying in the bad with a male visitor. I asked is this room 20 and it was confirmed. I apologised and sought out a nurse to discover the Good News that Sylvia had been discharged in the afternoon. I was delighted to get this news and called Sylvia when I got home and spoke to her. She told me Len was doing some ironing! __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 30 June 2011 Update No2. on Len Carter's Wife, Sylvia I paid a visit to Sylvia in hospital this afternoon. I was glad to see Sylvia sitting in her chair and out of bed, but still with the saline drip attached. Sylvia seemed even better today than on my previous visit. As I got there, David, one of Sylvia's sons was just leaving, so I became the relief visitor. Not too long after I got chatting with Sylvia I heard Len's voice who was arriving for his afternoon visit, with a former neighbour friend, from the time when they lived in Northwood. Len was also delighted, and I mean delighted as you will see, to find his wife looking so much better. Now why would this be so? A few anecdotes from Len's antics in the home will suffice. Len had, for the first time since his Army days, tried to do some ironing. What a state he got into, first he could work out how to raise and lower the ironing board and was challenging Sylvia to tell him how to do so. But that wasn't the only problem Len knew it was a steam iron, not sure how, but he had no idea where the water was to be put in. Eventually he decided on a hole he spotted and poured it in there, as a result he fused all the Electrical system and even had to call a neighbour to flip the trip switches back on. But there's lots more but I give just one. Sylvia had told him how to use the microwave to create a meal from the freezer. Len explained that he dutifully read the instructions and did what Sylvia told him to use 130. Len said the instructions told him to remove the outer packaging, which he disparaged "as though any fool needed to be told this". However when he took the meal out it was still frozen. We all believed that what Sylvia did not tell him, was to switch the Microwave on Ha Ha. The outcome of this was that we had a rip rip-roaring bouts of laughter in Sylvia's room. I told Sylvia this was very therapeutic and great for her healing to enjoy so many deep 'belly laughs'. Sylvia, get better soon, as I dread to think what next might befall your poor husband Len! __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 28 June 2011 Update No. 1 on Sylvia I was unable to get to see Sylvia yesterday evening, as by the time I had finished my work on the Website it was too late for visiting times. However as I had an Outpatient appointment of my own at 0940. After that I took a chance of going to see if I could see Sylvia at 1100 and was successful. Sylvia seemed a lot better than when I last met her and was on a hydration drip. She is in a new Ward where all beds are in separate rooms with on suite facilities, which I was so pleased to see. Later this evening Len called and told me that there is a hope that if all goes well on her treatment now, then she will not need to go to a Hammersmith Hospital. Lest us pray that this turns out to be the case. __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ CORRECTION 27 June 2011 Len Carter's wife, Sylvia, is in Hospital Len has just called me to tell me his wife , Sylvia, is in Bevan Ward in Hillingdon hospital. I know Sylvia has not been well for some weeks and has lost a lot of weight. The hospital has determined that Sylvia has a kidney malfunction of some sort. Sylvia may have to be transferred to a Hammersmith hospital for an operation. Sylvia is a regular supporter of our Summer Reunions and known to so many of us. I will try to get to see Sylvia this evening. Please keep Sylvia, Len and their family in your prayers at this difficult time. I will keep you updated as further news becomes available. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 09 October 2008 Len Carter Update Len was at the hospital today and he called me to let me know the latest. It is great news; because Len is elated. The hospital has decided that Len will not need to undergo the Chemotherapy after all. Len was not looking forward to having the Chemo so he was understandably delighted. The reason for the change is because Len has now been 10 days off the antibiotics with no recurrence of the dreadful Cdiff side effects. Chemo would have undermined this welcome situation, with its known and expected side effects. Also they are fairly sure that they got all the cancer from the bowel, though there was the issue of the lymph glands. Sylvia called me this morning to say that Len was elated. Of course down the line the use of Chemo might well be a useful and desirable treatment. John 07 September 2008 I called Len a little earlier and was glad to learn that the anticipated improvement in Len' symptoms has occurred. Clearly Len hopes that this change of medication will have a lasting effect, after the course(s) have run. 05 September 2008 Dear Friends, 11 September 2008 Len Carter Update Dear Friends, 03 September 2008 Len Carter Len Carter *************************************************************************8 29 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends,
24 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends, The best news so far is that Len and Sylvia were able to attend the Blaisdon Reunion today. Thanks to the kindness of Roger and Corrine Allen, they will stay with them at their home. Len drove himself down, which is quite a milestone. John ****************************************************************************** 21 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends, ************************************************************************* 20 August 2008 Len Carter Len Carter - Update Len called me to say things are still improving, whilst he is on the antibiotics. He called the surgery but there was no news on analysis of the specimen. Later his doctor called to speak to Len, but Len was out walking and although Sylvia offered to pass on a message she was told No as the doctor needs to speak to Len. Len tried the surgery but the doctor was not available and so far has not called Len back. Len and Sylvia are, understandably, a little concerned as to what this might be about. He will try tomorrow and hope that he makes contact or the doctor calls him back. John
19 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends, ************************************************************************ 18 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends, 17 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends, ************************************************************************ 16 August 2008 Mick Grange I have just learned from Terry O'Neill that Mick is not very well and will not be able to be with us at Blaisdon this coming weekend. Please remember Mick, who has been a most generous supporter of the Blaisdon Old Boys, in your thoughts and prayers. Thanks. ************************************************************************** Click here for Len's previous history 16 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends, ************************************************************************* 15 August 2008 Len Carter Dear Friends,
3 August 2008 Len Carter New Update 10 Dear Friends, *********************************************************************** 12 August 2008 Len Carter - Update 9 Dear Friends, *********************************************************************** 11 August 2008 Len New Update 8 Dear Friends, 10 August 2008 Len New Update 7 Today Len is still feeling even more better. However today he took the final antibiotic tablet for this session and hopes that he does not again return to the dreadful condition he was in when the previous session finished. 09 August 2008 Len Carter - New Update 6 Len called me today and there is better news in that his 'visits' are now just twice in the last 24hrs. As a result Len is feeling a good bit better with some more strength. Indeed when I called to deliver some things he wanted this morning he was out for a walk. Len was delighted to receive Roger and Corrine Alan who drove all the way from Gloucs to see him, for the second time, yesterday. Len is very appreciative of all his many friends and their interest in his situation. Let's pray this improvement will continue - this time. 08 August 2008 Len Carter - New Update 5 Dear
Friends, 07 August 2008 Dear Friends, New Update 4
Not what Len wanted to hear. 04 August 2008 Len Carter has sadly reverted to a
previous poor position. I have spoken to both Len and Sylvia and they are
both rather distressed. They have been to their Doctor who has indicated that he
feels sure this is a recurrence of CDiff and has sent off samples to be checked.
Hoping to get results on Wednesday. Meantime Len has been put back on
antibiotics. They the see the Consultant on Thursday re the Histology. 22 July 2008 Len has been at home now since last Friday. I spent an hour with him in his garden this morning and I can tell you he seems now, at last, to be well on the way to a full recovery. He had news from the Nurse this morning that his Bloods and now all fine and he is over his CDiff infection. We now just await the Histology report. *********************************************************************** 18 July 2008 Update 9 This one will surprise you; it certainly did me! Just before 1pm I received a telephone call from Len. He said he was at home, as he has been discharged. A nurse came into his isolation room at 1000 and told him he was going, as they needed his bed. Len asked at what time did they need his bed and received the reply at 1100. He was told to get up and collect all his things and told to wait in the day room until 1300 when a car would take him home. He expressed a desire not to have to wait till 1300 and they fixed a hospital car and got him home just before 1300. Given that he is still suffering frequent diarrhoea this caused him some distress. However he is happy to be home. I asked could I visit and he said yes. Sylvia was somewhat disgusted with the way this came about, but is setting about caring for her Husband, as you would expect. I went straight over to Len in Harefield and had a cup of tea with them. The hospital said they had advised his Doctor and he should get some District Nurse help now at home. My guess is that this advice to his doctor was by 2nd class letter and the help will not be provided before Monday at the earliest. I hope I am wrong. I tried to get Sylvia to call his Doctor but Len wouldn't hear of it I'll keep closely in touch with Len and Sylvia and hope that progress is good from hereon and that they get the professional help they need. On this basis I'll make this the final update in this series. I'll let you know occasionally how Len is progressing at home. My thanks to those who regularly thanked me for keeping you all informed. Thanks from Len, Sylvia and family for all your prayers, concern and good wishes. _______________________________________________________________________ 17 July 2008 Update 8 I did not visit Len today but Sylvia gave me a current update. In terms of the discomfort Len is suffering it is sad to say this continues today. The doctor has said that if they can get the infection under control it may be possible to discharge Len at the weekend. Sylvia was not so optimistic that this would be possible. Len is still not eating much and she intends to take him in some food she knows he will like to eat tomorrow. Furthermore Sylvia will need nursing support when Len is discharged as she would not be able to lift or support Len on her own. Here endeth the eight update" 16 July 2008 Update 7 I visited Len earlier this evening and had to wait sometime to get in to see Len, as he was attending to his ablutions. Len is having a trying time right now. I can confirm that it is Cdif that he is being isolated for. Sadly, although Len is eating hardly anything he is suffering violent vomiting and diarrhea, which might be the effects of the Cdif. This of course is making him rather worn out, though today I found him rather brighter than usual . One of the things Len can eat is banana and he said had he known I was coming he would asked me to bring some in. I offered to go down to the canteen to see if I could buy some, Len said not to bother. Then a young nurse came to do some checks and I asked if the canteen was open and sold fruit. She replied yes to both. So with that I went down and fortunately I was able to buy 4 bananas. When I returned I noticed a similar bag on his locker and in it there was three bananas! The nurses had earlier discovered that his blood/sugar level was at 2 which is very low and they are working on this, as Len suffers with diabetes. In spite of everything Len is determined to keep an optimistic outlook. It was good to see him freed from all the lead attachments. I told Len to call me about 6pm to ask me if I am coming to see him, so I can get him whatever he might need. We had a short chat about Salesians as I took to him the Provincial letter which I had received in the mail today. Len was gracious and told me he enjoyed my visits. I was so glad to hear that. 15 July 2008 Update 6 I was unable to visit Len today, as I was out to dinner with friends. Sylvia has just called me with and update on Len's progress. When she went to see him she was pleased to see him looking somewhat better. He has all the attachments removed and was sitting in his chair. Sadly, when his daughter visited this evening she found out that Len has caught this bug and is now in isolation; and visitors must wear a plastic apron and surgical gloves before going into see Len. He is now on a course of antibiotics and it is believed this will take two or three days to deal with the infection. I will visit Len tomorrow evening and will hope to have a more promising outcome to advise on my next update. 2008 Update 5 I am just back from visiting Len in hospital. There are some improvements to report; the oxygen tubes in his nose and Tube into his stomach were removed this morning. The catheter will be removed tomorrow. However his lower abdomen is still quite distended but not quite as hard as previously, though still very firm. A lot of body fluid is leaching into a bag on his side which needs regular emptying and weighed. When I got to the hospital Len was sitting in a chair beside his bed and the nurse was remaking his bed. Len asked to be helped back into bed. I chatted for a while and then Helped Len rearrange his pillows so he could have a little sleep. Len is still quite positive in his thoughts, which is a good sign. 13 July 2008 Update 4 Again I did not visit Len today. I spent most of my weekend trying, and finally completing a short while ago, to fix the computer for a neighbour, with three young girls. Sylvia called me and gave me the latest after her visit to her husband, Len. The situation is much the same as yesterday. Len is still in severe discomfort and very tired. He still has the tube fed into his stomach via his nose, to disperse the build up of gases that cause the distended lower abdomen. However, Sylvia though he looked a little better facially than in the past. Please keep up the prayers for Len and his family. 12 July 2008 Update 3 I did not visit Len today but Sylvia and family did and Sylvia called me with the latest. Len did not see a doctor, until this morning! Then a decision was made to insert a tube via his nose into his stomach to relieve the pressure build up of gasses. This has had a slight beneficial effect, and to help he is now being fed only via an intravenous drip into his stomach. Len is still feeling very poorly, but hoping to be discharged about Tuesday, but Sylvia thinks this is very optimistic. Len was for the first time since his surgery helped out of his bed into a chair, which was a relief from the bed pressure. 11 July 2008 Update 2 Today, this evening, when I visited Len and asked how he was, he said it was worse than yesterday. His pain had increased and this seemed to be because his lower abdomen was largely bloated and quite hard. The Sister had called for the Doctor and he was expecting the doctor soon after I arrived. The Sister wanted a doctor's opinion as to what might be amiss, or if this was to be expected. As Len was quite tired and wanted to sleep, having had visitors over some hours, I wished Len well and left him to get some well needed rest. I'll keep in touch with Sylvia to determine what the latest is after her visit tmrw and update this file. Please keep up the prayers. Dear Friends, 27 June 2008 Len Carter's operation information Dear Friends, _______________________________________________________________________ 20 June 2008 The latest news about Len Carter is not good. Len, with Vincent Shaw, has just got back from a short trip to Fatima in Portugal. A letter was awaiting his return to see a Consultant for a review, bringing it forward a month. This review took place yesterday and I received a call from Len this morning that news, as he half expected, was not good. Len has been told he has cancer of the bowel and will be operated on within a fortnight. Please keep Len and his family in your prayers that this operation will be successful and cure his cancer. I am sure Len will be uplifted to receive cards form his many admirers among the Blaisdon Brotherhood. His home address is: 31 Gilbert Road, Harefield, Middx UB9 6NH. Tel: 01895 822388 I will keep this item updated with news of Len's progress.
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